When Reality Does Not Match The Dream

Many people feel frustrated because they do not match reality with dreams. For example, there is a kid who wants to lecture at University , but in fact the cost is not sufficient. Or, those who migrated to the big city, dreamed of a national-class job even international, but in fact the work was acquired casual & what it is. There is also a businessman, wrote might expect profit rises 10 times, even into bankruptcy

What do we expect, sometimes it does not match reality. So what should we do? Here are 3 steps or tips that could you when dreams do not match reality

1. Always act in a flexible and dynamic if you really want to succeed, it is necessary * prepared * to be flexible and act dynamically to any changes that occur. Now, I’ll make a simple analogy … We have a storm or hurricane large, we often see tree trunks that have fallen very much! What for? Because they are not able to resist loads received. But try to see under the bamboo! Because of the flexible stem, so the bamboo can be flexible to move in any direction, and rarely fallen! Well, so anything with us! If we act and think dynamic and flexible, then we will more resilient in the face of challenges and changes and problems that come.
2. Think that THIS IS the best for us! When reality does not match the dream, believe that this is the best for us. We may never know the scenario that his determined. Because, everything that we are good logic, it could be just the opposite in the eyes of God! Think always positive for anything that happens to you. Do not let one failure to make you disappointment, much less frustrating and protracted. You  know what I do if there is a dream or not accomplished what I wanted? I used to say: “Come on Man, you ill need to be disappointed, do not ask me why, it is GOOD for you! Now you listen carefully, God will replace them with BETTER! God knows you do-good & wise. Your life is filled with abundance, and you were born for  a winner! “I used to say in front of the mirror with confidence, of course, when I was alone! hehe … It works for me!

You   may try later What do I do the above it is ‘affirmation’.  Affirmations are positive words spoken over and over again & is believed to form the image postif to reduce negative attitudes in ourselves. The words This affirmation can we create / design their own, and then can be spoken verbally or in the liver. Hynotherapy According to experts, an affirmation that will be ‘caught’ by our subconscious. And if you constantly say & with confidence, then we ARE or WILL be like that there, that we speak! In other words, the affirmation is the same as pray. Okay, and then! Though today what we hope not in accordance with the dreams, but we must ….

3.  Prepare fixed WINNERS MENTAL! When we experience failure, is better than blaming myself instropeksi destiny. Who knows, we are not ready to be a winner! It could be a success will only make us proud, and since God so unfortunately for us, He does not want His servants to sin. Dude, every victory is better than any pioneered our sweat! It would be better if we get the victory step by step. Many people are successful, but then they fell. There is rising again, some do not. Meander every human life is not the same. But remember, a chance to win it is always open to anyone, without exception! Fortune and victory was truly immeasurable number of God, is still a lot that hangs in the sky! Now how you stay! whether to achieve? or expect down by itself? I suggest, do not ever choose the latter . We all know that the name of victory was often owned by those who … ill never stop trying!

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